One of my most favorite scenes of all time is from that movie, My Big Fat Greek Wedding. Toula brings Ian to meet her family, and within seconds, the entire room erupts into sheer pandemonium. Aunts are pinching cheeks, uncles are hugging hellos, grandmas are dancing, children are running around. There is singing and dancing and most importantly, there is food. Tons of food. It's being ladled from giant pots and served from humongous platters and people are talking and laughing and eating. Boy, are they eating!
And even though my family's not Greek, that scene pretty much summarizes every weekend of my childhood. I can't think of a single gathering that wasn't centered around food. And nothing triggered more chaos in my already boisterous family than food. Well, that and cricket, but that's a whole other blog post. Biryani with potatoes or without? Samosas in pastry or wonton wrappers? Haleem served with a fork or spoon? Korma with naan or rice? If there was even the slightest room for preference, you can bet every member of my family, from grandmother to toddler, mounted the best legal defense to convince you that their way was the right way.
Take this here Khoi Soi (pronounced Khao Suey or Khao Say). This delicious coconut curry noodle dish and its many toppings have been the cause of so many vehement "discussions" in my family, my grandmother actually made a rule that we weren't allowed to talk while eating it. Rumor has it the dish ended up in my family by way of an uncle that moved to Burma many years ago. He brought back with him a fondness for smuggled cigars, which my grandmother utterly disapproved of, and some version of this recipe, which went a long way in earning her forgiveness for the cigar indiscretion. Over time, my grandmother added a more Pakistani or "desi" twist to this recipe so it's definitely not the traditional recipe which generally uses red curry paste and fish sauce.

It's been many years since my family got together for Khoi Soi. We've all moved away, started families of our own, and the culinary mastermind behind the potato chip topping is in heaven, watching Pakistani soap operas and cackling with her friends. But at least once a month, I make this dish for my family, and when serving it, I chatter particularly loudly, pinch their cheeks, and think about writing the manuscript for My Big Fat Pakistani Wedding.
1 pound fresh egg noodles (or in a pinch, 1 pound dried spaghetti)
1 batch coconut curry (recipe below)
1 batch of spicy chicken (recipe below)
Various toppings- hard boiled eggs, fried shallots, minced garlic, chopped cilantro, shredded cabbage, crushed peanuts, fresh limes, etc.
Coconut Curry
1 can coconut milk
2 cups chicken stock
2-3 tbs. gram flour
2-3 tbs. water
1/2 tsp. Paprika
1/2 tsp. Turmeric
Oil
Salt
Pour coconut milk and chicken stock into a saucepan and heat to a gentle boil. In a separate bowl, mix gram flour and water until it forms a slurry. Pour half of the slurry into the heated coconut milk mixture, whisking continuously. Wait until the curry heats up and check thickness (it should be a soupy consistency lightly coat the back of a spoon). If it's too thin, add half of the remainder of slurry, whisking continuously. Check consistency again. Add turmeric and salt, to taste. In a separate pan, heat 2 tablespoons of oil. When oil is hot, remove from heat, quickly whisk in the paprika in to hot oil, and pour the oil on top of the curry carefully (it will splatter).
Spicy Chicken
1 pound chicken breast
1 onion, diced
1 tbsp. garlic paste
1/2 tbsp. ginger paste
2 tbsp. tomato paste
1 tsp. paprika
1/2 tsp. cayenne
Salt
Heat 2 tablespoons of oil in a saucepan and saute onion until translucent. Add ginger and garlic paste, mix and cook until fragrant. Add the tomato paste, spices, and 1/2 cup of water. Mix until you have a loose curry paste. Add the chicken and mix thoroughly. Cover until chicken is cooked.
Follow the instructions on the package of fresh noodles (or if you're using dried spaghetti, boil the spaghetti). Add noodles to a bowl, top with curry, chicken, and assorted toppings. Devour.
Good gatherings and moments always seem wrapped around food and lots of it and that's just the way it should be! I love going to the Malaysian restaurant for a curry noodle soup fix and I just love the layers of flavors in yours (potato chip topping!!), and the stories that goes with it. : ) I can see why one shouldn't talk when devouring this. I just love it!
ReplyDeleteOmg now you have me craving Malaysian food! There's a place near our house that makes a fantastic laksa and now all I can think about it laksa at 10 p.m. :)
DeleteThat curry is beautiful!! And this dish just sounds so delicious :)
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Thanks Sues! And it's so much fun to eat with all the toppings!
DeleteMy mom also makes khao suey (we're Indians) and to date, it's one of my favourite dishes!
ReplyDeleteHi Roshni! How neat! I'd love to hear how your mom makes/serves it. I wonder if there are regional variations because I know the Pakistani version is very different from the traditional Burmese one.
Deletethis recipe came at a perfect time because i have a can of coconut milk that needs to be used soon. thank you!!! i'd love be part of this big fat pakistani wedding, you guys have the best parties, not to mention food :)
ReplyDeleteRight?! I am also open to expanding to a more general My Big Fat Desi Wedding because there's just so much good stuff out there! I figure it's only a matter of time before someone writes it :)
DeleteThis looks amazing! I love anything coconut milk based. Can't wait to try it :)
ReplyDeleteI am of the opinion that more coconut milk is always a good thing! In smoothies, baked goods, soups, just more coconut milk please! :)
DeleteThis is something I SO want to try! I'm sure it's even going to go down well with my mom who's visiting considering the desi-ness.
ReplyDeletePlease please make it and report back! It's definitely one of my favorites so I'm always excited when others try it!
DeleteSoup is soulful and comforting. This one looks amazing. I can't think of any event that creates good memories than good meals that are enjoyed with family and friends.
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I agree! Soup (and really, all food!) is so much better when shared!
DeleteThis looks great!
ReplyDeleteThanks friend!
DeleteI love that you grew up surrounded by good food! If I'd grown up similarly I bet I'd be more than just a passable cook.
ReplyDeleteGreat pictures A!
Have a great weekend.
No way! I've seen all the good food you make! And more importantly, I've seen all the good food you're exposing Maya too! She's going to be a fantastic cook :) (and a fantastic dessert eater, if Ali has anything to say about it) :)
DeleteI just found this on reddit. The soup alone looks awesome, I bet it's even better with the noodles. I'll have to give this one a go. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping on by! The soup is probably the best part. I've contemplated thinning it out a bit and just drinking it like a straight up broth but then I'm like, why mess with a good thing?! :)
DeleteIf "My Big Fat Pakistani Wedding" gets made into a movie, I'm totally watching it! I love My Big Fat Greek Wedding, and I actually watched it recently and I adore that scene. Our Chinese meals were always centered around food, too, but were much more sedate gatherings :)
ReplyDeleteI love hearing the story behind this dish! There's something so debonair about an uncle bringing back this recipe with a fondness for smuggled cigars. I'll have to buy a bag of Lay's for this recipe ;)
This coconut curry noodle soup looks super YUM! SO delicious and full of awesome flavors. I need this in my life! :)
ReplyDeleteYour family gatherings sound like a foodies dream! As does this gorgeous curry!
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